Care factor - Zero

Ok this possibly wont be a popular blog but I am just going to say it anyway.  As always if you dont like what I have to say,, the little x at the top is there for your convenience=o) I dont really care if you agree or disagree, its just really bugging me how people feel they can say what they want but if some one says something different then whoa baby they must be doing the devils work!!

I am constantly dumbfounded by comments I hear sometimes. Ignorant, bigoted, downright hurtful comments by people. People making comments half the time about things they know absolutely nothing about yet feel they need to push their views onto every other person around them. From views on  race to religion, From pro choice to sexuality.

I dont see the point really. I mean  if you dont like a certain lifestyle or persons choice they make why do people feel the need to pass judgement? Why is it anyone's business but their own what they do with their life if its not hurting anyone else but them? If you dont like what they do or believe, dont hang with them, and dont do what they do, and Don't pass judgement,, Are any one of us really that perfect we can afford to throw stones??? I am not passing judgement on anyone's spirituality or religious beliefs, but surely in this day and age we can all respect that  there are many religions we have the freedom to choose what we believe without fear of  belittling and ridicule. I never discuss my religious choice or spirituality, not because I am ashamed, but because to me its private, I dont feel the need to flaunt it nor preach to others about my choice.

In this day and age I am still struggling to understand  how people can  be so thoughtless and uncaring towards their own fellow human beings just because of the colour of their skin or where they came from. Personally I dont care what colour your from or what planet you came from, as long as you treat me and my family with respect, you and me are good!

And whats this crap about gay being a lifestyle choice and they will burn in hell, Honestly do people really think most gay folk woke up one morning and thought, I want to make my life difficult and have people judge me all the time. The facts are a lot of gay people went through a period in their life where they wished  they could be straight just so they could fit in and feel normal. Some do live  a straight life still in this day and age for rear of being found out.

Then you have people making comments like "this is *** my gay friend".. I dont get that. Do they introduce everyone of their friends by their sexuality? Having a gay friend isn't an accessory item in your must haves for the season. If you are really accepting of that persons sexuality why do you need to advertise it like its the only reason your friends with them. Instead just accept them for them, and let them live their life normally like you and me... cause you know what if you stop looking at the gay thing, you will probably find a unique caring person that deserves to be loved for themselves not their trendiness status.

Now to my pet disrespect dislike. The whole Pro choice debate.. to be clear here before the righteous feel the need to attack me, I have never had an abortion, nor do I think I would of had one unless there was a medical reason, but that is my choice! I know of many women that have had them for various reasons in their life and its always been a very hard and heart breaking decision for them to make, so people going on about women having an abortion as a contraception are just bloody stupid in my book.

Never have I ever heard each of these women say that's my safe sex nor have I ever heard of them talk about it as a joke. Each of them has to live with the choice they made and it has  been hard on each of them for different reasons. For that matter people that go on and preach to these women and tell them they are going to burn in hell or throw the M word at them.. well they are not respectful people and when it comes down to it, who do you think is going to be found wanting in the righteous or christian stakes when it comes time to do the math at the precious gates they so desperately want to get past.

Yep I am pretty passionate about this one. Its bullying in its grossest form and not something I can stand.. If someone doesn't agree with it,, then dont have one, but dont dare presume to think you are the judge or juror and think I wont say something about it, because no body is perfect, we all have at least one deep dark secret we wish we could turn back time and change the outcome. So unless you are willing to  speak up and tell everyone what it is and have them all pass judgement on you,You dont get a say.

*Hopefully I havent alienated too many folk with this rant> I know several people I know that will disagree with my feelings on many of these thoughts, but you know what that's cool. everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Just like I was entitled to mine.