I No Longer Give My Consent

Boxed up  all my ornaments and nick knacks in my Lounge room today and packed away in the shed. Its had the soothing effect I was hoping for. Each time I wrapped up and packed something in the box I was thinking seriously negative thoughts and by the time I finished I was  thinking how much calmer and focused I now am.

Things have really been getting to me lately. Worry over family members, stress  about  moving, Less than supportive people surrounding us and the biggy My hormone implant has stopped working. Its started causing a few cracks in the harmony of our home. I wont stand for that! This morning I had really hit a massive wall. I swear if anyone that has been less than supportive had of walked in my door this morning, they would of faced the full wrath of my frustrations and anger. Whats more, I wouldnt of cared if I upset them.

So in every box of ornaments I have wrapped up the anger in old newspaper. Fitting really, it is  now old news! Once I taped up and labeled the box I gave each a blessing to dissipate the negative energy in the healing  properties of time. A fire when the boxes are emptied will do the rest .

I think from now on I will need to just remind myself of one very important quote One of my inspirational women once said. "No one can make me feel inferior without my consent". It will be my mantra  each day  until it becomes second nature to expect it of myself.

If I think someone is crossing a line and disrespecting me or my choices, I have a choice. I can smile sweetly and ignore them or I can tell them what they have just said is disrespectful towards me and to  stop it. If I feel someone is taking advantage of me  I have a choice I can go along with it or I can tell them I think they are taking advantage of my nature and to stop it. If I feel like I am being stepped all over or taken for granted I can choose to let them continue or I can  stop doing things for them and let them clean up their own mess, cook their own meals, pay their own bills, wash their own clothes fold and put away, buy their own beer/clothes/tools, buy their own families gifts, get themselves to and from school/friends/band practice... the list goes on but you get the drift.

So as of today I am giving notice to any that haven't been getting the hint. I no longer give My consent.

I am still going to be me, I am basically a non confrontational person, but unlucky for anyone that isnt playing nice- Nor am I if I get pushed!  I am a female and we all know us females have a little bit of goddess in us and should be treated with a wary respect when we awaken our inner goddess. Mine has just been re-awoken and she is  hell bent on protecting what is hers♥